It's Thanksgiving. Cue the #thankful lists on social media. Everyone loves to talk about what they are grateful for, what they love, what they value in life. And that's great. Except sometimes it feels like other people are giving thanks for finally learning to play the harp or a kid who got into college at age 13, when the rest of us are just happy we remembered to pick up the canned cranberry sauce.
You know what? You be thankful for that cylinder of fuchsia jelly. When you've been around the parenting scene for long enough, you know the little things add up to a big ball of grateful.
You're thinking, "But it's Thanksgiving and it feels big and important and shouldn't I be thankful for health and family and 27 people coming to my house for turkey and pie?"
Look deep into your heart. If you had your choice, you'd send everyone out for chicken nuggets on Thursday if it meant you could have 5 minutes just to brush your top teeth and your bottom teeth all in one go without one of your children needing help blowing their nose. That is the big stuff. That's worth a hearty "Thanks!"
Luvs surveyed a group of moms and guess what? We are all counting the little blessings. In fact, we kind of prefer it that way. According to a survey Luvs conducted, we parents would rather shower in peace than have a hot stone massage. Check out this infographic, which basically says that moms would value a full-sized candy bar they can eat while hiding in the trunk of their minivans. That's what they value.
What can we learn from the fact that nearly 2 in 3 moms have never taken a day completely for themselves? We can learn that we will take small doses of added value anyway we can get it. Also that we should really make an effort to find a good sitter.
Luvs discovered that small kindnesses are #WhatULuv. Lean in sister moms and brother dads, here’s more of what we love, of what we value most. Not the pie-in-the-sky stuff of fairytales, but the little victories that get us through the day.
We love hot meals, eaten alone. Even if we have to eat them while hiding in our closets.
We love babies who can be lulled to sleep by a short car ride.
We love it when our kids sneeze into their elbows and not our faces.
We love toddlers who can feed themselves.
We love baby's first full night of sleep after which we remember that sometimes the sun rises before we do.
We love when baby sleeps through the night and stays dry in her Luvs Ultra Leakguard with NightLock Plus.
We love finding that one crayon in the wash before we accidentally slip it into the dryer.
We love babies who are good burpers.
We love kids who think leftover night is the best.
We love clearance rack, wash-n'-wear tee shirts in patterns that mask baby spit-up.
We love when Grandma sends holiday-themed outfits for our infants and they actually fit in the season in which they were intended to be worn.
We love Luvs diapers because they are softer and more absorbent than ever, don’t leak, and don’t cut into our secret snacks budget.
We love it when we can get the baby through the grocery store in same outfit they left the house in.
We love washable art supplies.
We love the official diaper of experienced parents who can leave the house with two kids and less than 576 things in the diaper bag.
We love 5-minute couch naps while the toddler finishes watching cartoons.
We love surviving to see another day full of giggles and minor mishaps and cuddles and creative parenting.
So, this Thanksgiving enjoy #WhatULuv. Do yourself a solid and put an extra jar of store-bought gravy in the saucepan because who cares if the turkey is a little dry when you can drown it in gravy? The time you save not making homemade gravy will give you time to wash and dry your hair before guests arrive. Besides, everyone came for the carbs, not the protein.
And before you go and finish doing all of the things and doing them like a boss, let me invite you to something that will make your life a little easier and more fun. Join a bunch of experienced moms for a #WhatULuv Twitter party hosted by @iConnect and @Luvs, on November 29th, 9-10pm EST to share what you value as a parent. There are sure to be prizes and laughs and you can come in your PJs.
BUT THERE’S MORE: Download this print-at-home coupon and save $1 on Luvs diapers.
SPONSORED POST ALERT: Happy Thanksgiving from me and my friends at Luvs, who sponsored this post. Yep, I get paid to talk about Luvs, but I talk about Luvs because I’m a Luvs mom. I have four kids and when they were still in diapers, they were in Luvs.